How to Cultivate True Freedom in Your Life

A few weeks ago I asked my community to fill out a survey so that I can get a feel for the challenges and desires present in their life right now.

Almost everyone said some version of wanting freedom in their lives — the freedom to pursue their dreams and passions, to own their time, to choose what to focus their energy on, to do the things they love, follow their hearts, be of service, and even create their own home in the middle of the forest.

When asked about what they needed to make it happen, the top answers came down to more money.

But the thing is the level of freedom you’re seeking doesn’t come from external gain.

Abundance comes from within.

The power to create comes from within.

Freedom comes from within.

Don’t get me wrong, money certainly opens doors to more freedom. But it’s not everything. It’s not a requirement.

I’m like you in that freedom is one of my deepest desires. It’s something I’m intentional about cultivating in my life.

Over the years I've nurtured the freedom to redefine what love, intimacy, and relationships look like for me. After heavy deconditioning, tough conversations, painful mistakes, and deep healing, I’ve been able to transition from a monogamous relationship to a polyamorous one. Because it was a soul-level desire.

Now we are both free to independently explore other connections and let them organically grow into whatever form they take. All while still deeply loving each other and nourishing our relationship. We’re going on 18 years together, married for 8, and polyamorous for 5.

I also traded in less money for the freedom to explore my passions. My last “real” job was back in 2015 and I’m now focused on growing my second business. Having the freedom to set my own schedule and pursue work that lights me up meant leaning into the support of others, working flexible gig jobs like driving Uber, and taking on freelance work.

Because I knew that although money would be tight in the short term, giving myself the space to be in my own creative flow would eventually create the prosperity I dream of. Having a profitable business that helps me expand, express my gifts to the world, and be of service is another soul-level desire.

The point is more freedom in your life comes down to expanding what you believe is possible for yourself and having the courage to move in the direction you’re called towards.

Even if the money isn’t showing up yet.

Even if you don’t know how it’s all going to work out.

Even if no one else gets what you’re doing.

Even if your desire goes against the norm.

A lot of the women who responded to the survey also said the thing holding them back is an inability to take consistent actionbecause of:

  • self-sabotage
  • lack of confidence
  • feeling not good enough
  • feeling stressed and anxious all the time
  • self-doubt and not believing the things they want are possible
  • procrastination
  • apathy
  • exhaustion and lack of energy
  • fear (of the unknown, of failure, of putting themselves out there, of judgment, etc.)
  • indecision and lack of clarity

The idea of doing more than what they’re already doing to keep up with life’s demands feels overwhelming.

But doing more is not the answer either. I would say people already do too much in this fast-paced, hustle-focused society we live in.

We’re all conditioned to strive for more — tying our worth to how successful and productive we are. But deep down we want to do less. So that we can have the time and energy to enjoy the journey.

I find that it’s usually not about taking more action. Instead, it’s about consciously prioritizing where and how you invest your energy — aligning with the truth of your being. No amount of action can make up for a misaligned focus.

When you're in alignment the action doesn't feel burdensome. The overwhelm, the disconnect, the burnout, apathy, and the lack of energy results from being out of alignment.

I'm not here to help people do or achieve more, I'm here to help people BE. Specifically, to help people be themselves and congruent with their true nature.

The deep transformation that my work initiates people into is not about striving for more success or productivity ****to feel like they're enough.

My work is for those who desire to cultivate the inner peace that comes from playing with life and surrendering to the flow of your authentic self.

It’s about the freedom to be you — all of you. (Yes, you can be a Queen and a hot mess too. 😉)

Because being true to yourself frees you. Loving, accepting, and integrating ALL of you frees you.

It’s for those who desire to feel fully alive and whole in this human experience, co-creating with life as it comes — through the highs and the lows.

For those who want to feel at ease both internally within their own energy, and externally within their lived experiences — grounded in the present and responding to the moment from a space of authentic wisdom, power, and strength.

It’s about living life with intention so you can shift from survival mode to creator mode.

The freedom you deeply desire comes from aligning with who you truly are. Living true to your energetic blueprint taps you into abundance consistently and sustainably.

We can work together to create abundance in a way that’s right for you.

My 1:1 coaching is a choose-your-own-adventure path customized to you. It begins by assessing how your Soul’s energy is designed to flow and thrive (using tools like Human Design, Astrology, personality assessments, deep questioning, and journaling), then recalibrating to that.

From there, our work can include:

  • Re-programming your beliefs to align with the life you crave
  • Releasing fear and doubt
  • Rebalancing your energy and filling up your cup
  • Creating a routine that feels nourishing and prioritizes what's important
  • Expanding your capacity to receive
  • Opening your perspectives to higher possibilities
  • Amplifying your magnetism to attract the opportunities, people, and resources you need
  • Grounding more of your higher self
  • Energetic healing and attunements
  • Building up your confidence
  • Getting clear on your vision and your why
  • Figuring out your options and the next best steps to bring your desires to life
  • Taking aligned action (less is more)
  • Navigating resistance and self-sabotage
  • Creating healthy boundaries
  • Standing up for what you believe in
  • Speaking up and expressing yourself more freely
  • Cultivating loving and harmonious relationships

…plus so much more.

If this is resonating with you, I invite you to work with me 1-on-1 to sustainably create the life you want. You can learn more here.

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with love and magic,

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