Shift from depletion to empowerment by learning to work with your energy, rather than against it.
Welcome, love to Day 1 of this powerful initiation—one that invites you to step into full ownership of your energy, your essence, and your path.
In today’s transmission, we’re diving into what it truly means to thrive by mastering your energy.
Right now, you might be feeling pulled in different directions, unsure of what you truly want, or lacking the energy to take action. But when you reclaim your energy and align with your true essence, your dreams become clearer, and you have the vitality, courage, and confidence to pursue them.
Without energetic awareness, you’ll keep defaulting to old patterns— like people pleasing, playing small, or self-sabotage—rather than stepping into the life they’re meant to create.
We’ll explore:
But first, if you're new to me or we haven’t connected in a while, let me introduce myself! I’ll keep it short for you.
I’m Alegna Moss, a Life & Soul Magic Coach dedicated to helping women break free from fear and self-doubt so they can fully trust the calls of their hearts and go *all in* on their dreams.
My journey started with a profound spiritual awakening in 2009 after an eye-opening mushroom trip, which set me on a lifelong path of personal growth, self-discovery, and embracing my unique magic. Since then, I’ve been blending the practical and mystical—exploring how we can create true fulfillment by aligning with our soul’s unique essence.
For me, business has been more than a way to create abundance on my own terms—it’s been a deep initiation into self-worth, authentic expression, energetic sustainability, and trusting myself fully. And because I’ve walked this path, I love guiding others through it too.
I’ve worked with energy for over a decade, weaving it into my branding business before stepping into coaching in 2023. After a brief pause to welcome my second baby into the world, I returned earlier this year with a renewed passion for helping others navigate their journey towards deeper authenticity and soul alignment.
At my core, I am a lightworker and paradigm-shifter, devoted to anchoring in the *New Earth*. Nothing lights me up more than seeing people embrace their truth, break free from conditioning, and show up in the world with an open heart.
Now, imagine this:
When you are fully owning your energy—when you trust yourself and honor your truth—you show up in life differently. You move with confidence. Decision-making becomes clear—you say *no* to what drains you and *yes* to what excites you, even if it feels uncertain.
Your relationships shift as well. Instead of molding yourself to fit others' expectations, you attract people who truly resonate with your energy. Conversations feel more natural, boundaries become effortless, and connections become more fulfilling.
Day-to-day, you move with intention rather than reacting to life. Maybe you start your mornings with stillness instead of immediately checking your phone. You become aware of what fuels you and make choices that support your well-being. Work and creativity feel lighter—ideas flow, and you take action in a way that energizes rather than depletes you. Life no longer feels like a struggle; it feels like something you're co-creating with ease and joy.
To get to this point, you have to treat your energy as your most valuable asset. It shapes your reality, influences your experiences, and determines how you feel every day. And here’s the truth: You have the power within you to create a life overflowing with joy, abundance, and deep fulfillment.
This journey is about reclaiming that power. Learning to be in your own energy, to trust the natural currents of your desires, and to flow with life rather than fight against it. Because when you do, life opens up in the most magical and unexpected ways.
How Radical Radiance Supports You in This Journey
This is the work we’ll be doing inside Radical Radiance, my high-vibrational coaching incubator designed to help you break through limitations, embody your soul’s unique codes, and create the life your heart truly desires.
As we move through this 5-part series, I’ll be sharing glimpses of how Radical Radiance can support you on this journey.
The program is designed to help you explore, understand, and work with your energy in a way that supports your expansion—without depletion. It’s about aligning with how you’re naturally designed to operate at your best.
We dive into your Human Design, so you can understand how your energy works and what you need to thrive. No more forcing yourself into boxes that are not conducive to your well-being. Instead, you’ll learn to honor your unique rhythm and flow.
You’ll learn to manage your energy on a daily basis —mentally, physically, emotionally, creatively, and spiritually. So you’re not constantly running on empty, pushing beyond your natural capacity, or getting stuck in cycles of burnout. Instead, you’ll cultivate a way of being that allows you to show up as your most radiant, powerful self with ease.
This journey is also about living a life by design, not by default.
So many of us have been conditioned to believe we have to follow a certain path, live up to certain expectations, or sacrifice our joy for success. But that’s not the truth.
In Radical Radiance, we work to decondition you from the limitations and programming that keep you playing small. You’ll begin making choices that reflect what truly matters to you—choices that are rooted in your desires, not in what you think you "should" do.
Instead of reacting to life’s circumstances, you’ll become the conscious creator of your reality. You’ll move through the world with clarity, confidence, and an unwavering connection to your bigger vision.
This is about stepping into your power, reclaiming your energy, and designing a life that feels deeply, truly yours.
Ok with that said, let’s dive into today’s transmission...
Your Most Fulfilling, Expansive, and On-Purpose Life Comes from Being Your True, Authentic Self
From the moment we are born, we are handed a framework for how life is "supposed" to be. We absorb rules, expectations, and conditioned beliefs about success, love, work, and even our own worth. These structures help us navigate the world as children, but as we grow, they often become cages—keeping us from fully expressing who we are and what we came here to do.
The truth is, that your most fulfilling and abundant reality can only unfold when you step into your authentic self.
Lack of authenticity is one of the most common reasons people feel drained, stuck, or unfulfilled. It’s an invisible force that erodes our energy and dims our inner spark. When we live out of alignment with who we truly are, everything feels harder. Our relationships, our work, even our ability to experience joy—it all suffers.
You can only create from a place of true power when you are fully yourself. When you honor your desires, your intuition, and your natural energy, you step into your creative force. Life becomes less about surviving and more about thriving. This is where true freedom and deep meaning are found.
And yet, you might be wondering: *Isn’t my life okay as it is? Do I really need to change?*
Many of us have been conditioned to believe that living authentically is selfish. That prioritizing our own truth means we are neglecting others. So we silence our intuition. We override our inner voice. We shape ourselves to match the energy of those around us, prioritizing their comfort over our own alignment.
We use other people’s happiness as our point of reference, rather than tuning into what actually feels right for us. And in doing so, we slowly disown our energy. We give away our power, letting someone or something else dictate the course of our lives.
Maybe this shows up for you in subtle ways—saying yes to plans when you’d rather rest, biting your tongue instead of expressing your true feelings, or structuring your entire day around other people’s needs, leaving no space for what you truly want. Or maybe it’s in bigger life decisions—choosing a “safe” career path because it’s what’s expected of you, or staying in relationships that drain you because you don’t want to disappoint anyone, or dismissing that big next step in your life your intuition is nudging towards because it doesn’t make logical sense.
I know this firsthand. I spent years following a path that wasn’t truly mine. From middle school through my second year of college, I pursued an education track to be a doctor —not because it was my dream, but because I felt the weight of other people’s expectations of what I *should* do with my potential. I ignored the inner voice telling me I was meant for something different. And when I got married, I made choices based on accommodating my family rather than what truly felt aligned for me and my partner. I look back at my wedding, and instead of feeling deep joy, I feel regret and remember how much I compromised my own desires to keep others happy.
It’s taken me time to break out of these patterns, to release the people-pleasing tendencies that kept me from fully honoring myself.
But what if reclaiming your energy—choosing yourself—was actually the key to everything you’ve been searching for?
This is your invitation to remember that your truth is not only valid, it’s necessary. And when you step into full alignment with who you are, you don’t just change your life—you become a beacon for others to do the same.
Your Reality is a Reflection of Your State of Being (aka Your Vibration)
Your vibration is the energetic frequency that reflects your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and overall state of being. This frequency is constantly interacting with the universe, creating a magnetic pull that attracts experiences that match your energy. The universe responds to your vibration, and it does so without judgment—it simply mirrors what you’re offering.
Perception plays a crucial role in shaping your reality because how you perceive the world directly influences how you experience it. Your mind filters and interprets information based on your beliefs and past experiences. If you see the world as abundant, loving, and supportive, your perception will guide you to notice opportunities and connections that affirm that view. Conversely, if you see the world as hostile or limiting, your perception will focus on challenges and obstacles, reinforcing that belief.
In this way, your vibration and perception work together to shape your reality. The energy you emit attracts experiences that align with your vibration, and your perception of those experiences further reinforces the reality you create.
This is why prioritizing your vibration, or in other words, your state of being is essential.
The key to shifting your reality is to raise your vibration and consciously choose a perception that supports the kind of life you want to experience.
It’s about recognizing the power of your energy and understanding that you are not a passive participant in your life; you are the creator of it. Every moment is an opportunity to tune your vibration to a higher frequency, one that attracts abundance, peace, and growth.
When you elevate your vibration, you elevate your state of consciousness. And when you do that, you have more energy available to you to create the life you desire. It becomes easier to see beyond scarcity, fear, and limitation. You stop feeling like life is something happening *to* you and start experiencing life as something you are actively co-creating.
The higher your vibration, the more life flows, and the easier it becomes to magnetize the things you want. Synchronicities increase, opportunities appear, and things begin to unfold with greater ease.
Owning Your Energy in a World of Influence
Your energy does not exist in isolation. You are constantly interacting with the energies of others—absorbing, syncing, and being shaped by the world around you. This isn’t a bad thing; it’s simply the nature of being human.
We are wired for connection. We have a natural tendency to synchronize with each other’s energy fields. It’s why you can walk into a room and immediately sense tension or why someone’s laughter can be contagious. The energy of those around us is always influencing us, just as our energy influences them.
But here’s the key: If you don’t own your energy—if you aren’t anchored into your own state of being—you will be at the mercy of everything and everyone around you.
When you constantly put external energies—other people’s opinions, societal expectations, or the chaos of the outside world—above your own, you disconnect from your truth. You give away your power.
Your mood, decisions, and even your sense of self can become dependent on external factors. You might:
This is why self-awareness is crucial. When you deeply know yourself—when you trust that you are enough—you begin to cultivate the energetic boundaries that allow you to stay in your own frequency.
Without this foundation, co-dependency forms. We start to rely on other people’s approval, emotional state, or validation to feel secure in ourselves. Our fulfillment and identity become intertwined with the ever-changing moods of those around us, leaving us ungrounded and disconnected from our truth.
But when you own your energy—when you consciously choose your state of being—everything shifts.
This is what energetic mastery is all about—not shutting yourself off from the world, but standing so firmly in your own frequency that you become the one setting the tone.
Reclaiming Your Energy
Reclaiming your energy is about stepping into full ownership of your life—choosing to be intentional about where your energy goes and how you show up in the world. It requires three key shifts:
1. Taking Responsibility – You are the gatekeeper of your energy. This means being conscious of what you allow into your field—whether it's the people you surround yourself with, the media you consume, or the thoughts you entertain. It also means taking ownership of what you put out into the world, and recognizing that your words, actions, and energy all create ripple effects.
2. Honoring Your True Self – Living in alignment requires courage. It means structuring your life in a way that reflects what truly matters to you. This could look like setting boundaries in relationships, choosing work that lights you up, or creating space for rest and joy without guilt. When your commitments, environment, and social life support your truth, your energy naturally expands.
3. Mastering Your Energy – The 4-Part Framework
Self-mastery is about knowing how to navigate your internal state so that you stay aligned with your power. This requires:
1. Presence & Awareness – The foundation of energy mastery starts with being fully present and aware of your thoughts, emotions, and physical state. It’s about being fully engaged in the current moment and paying attention to what’s going on within and around you. This helps you break free from unconscious reactions and reclaim control over your energy. When you're aware of where your energy is going, you can redirect it intentionally instead of letting external influences drain you.
2. Get Perspective & Process Emotions – Instead of getting stuck in limiting stories or negative emotions, you learn to step back, observe, and process them in a healthy way . Emotions like fear, frustration, or self-doubt don’t have to control you—you can acknowledge them, shift your perspective, and release what no longer serves you without avoiding or suppressing it.
3. Align with Your Desires – Living in alignment means making choices that reflect the person you want to become. When your thoughts, emotions, and actions match your desires, you naturally attract what you want. Whether it’s abundance, joy, or freedom, you create the energy of it first, which allows it to flow into your life with greater ease.
4. Nourish Your Well-Being – Your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being all contribute to how you show up in the world. Taking care of your body, setting boundaries, getting enough rest, and surrounding yourself with uplifting energy are essential for sustaining high-vibrational living.
The beauty of this 4-part framework lies in how each part supports and enhances the others. Presence & Awareness helps you navigate and process emotions, which in turn allows you to align more deeply with your desires. When you nourish your well-being, you create the foundation for greater presence, emotional processing, and alignment, thereby perpetuating a cycle of positive energy. Mastering this framework allows you to move through life with greater ease, resilience, and joy, while constantly refining and optimizing your energy for the best results.
When you commit to these practices, you reclaim your power as the creator of your life. You stop reacting to the world around you and start moving from a place of inner alignment and clarity.
Aligning With Our Energetic Blueprint Allows Us to Move Through Life with Greater Ease
When you move in harmony with your natural energy, everything flows with greater ease and grace.
What works for one person won’t necessarily work for another, because we are all wired differently.
When we aren’t aware of our unique energy, we can often feel pulled in multiple directions, trying to meet the needs and expectations of others or society. This misalignment can lead to frustration, stress, and a sense of overwhelm.
This is why honoring your own rhythm, rather than following someone else’s formula, is key to unlocking your magic.
For example: Some people thrive with structured schedules, routines, and clear plans. It helps them stay focused and productive. Others feel stifled by rigid systems and need more fluidity, space, and spontaneity to do their best work.
Neither is right or wrong—it’s simply about knowing what works for *you*.
By discovering and aligning with your energetic blueprint, you’re essentially reconnecting to your true nature. You stop pushing against the current and start moving with it.
The first step is always awareness.
One of the most powerful tools for this self-awareness is Human Design. Think of it as a personalized instruction manual for your energy. It combines elements of astrology, the I Ching, the Kabbalah, and the chakra system to create a system that maps out your specific energy patterns, strengths, and challenges.
There are a lot of different elements to your design, but the most important places to start are your type, strategy, and authority.
Your Type represents your core energetic nature and how you're designed to interact with the world. There are five main types, each with their own unique way of processing energy and interacting with others. Understanding your Type is essential because it gives you a broad overview of how you best operate.
Your Strategy is a guideline for how you should approach life to avoid resistance and frustration. It's essentially your "roadmap" for engaging with the world in the most aligned way possible.
Your Authority is your unique decision-making process—how you’re designed to make choices that are correct for you. While Strategy guides how you should engage with the world, Authority provides a more personal, internal mechanism for determining what’s right for you.
I won’t go into detail on the different kinds of type, strategy, and authority here but I created a resource that introduces you to them if you’re not familiar with the system. It also goes into the centers which can show us where we’re susceptible to outside conditioning and the influence of others. That alone can be eye-opening. If you want this resource email me with the words Human Design and I’ll send it over.
Tools like Human Design offer a powerful framework to gain awareness of our unique energy and help us make decisions that honor who we truly are.
By tuning into your design, trusting your rhythm, and making choices that align with *your* flow, you unlock the path of least resistance—the path where your desires unfold effortlessly, without struggle.
Conclusion – Thriving by Being Yourself
When we release the preconceived notions of *how* life should be and start working with our own energy, something powerful happens: we begin to thrive simply by being ourselves.
No more forcing, no more striving to fit into a mold that was never meant for us. Instead, we step into a life that feels aligned, natural, and fulfilling—because it’s built around our true nature.
This is what energetic mastery allows us to do:
It all comes down to three things:
1. Mastering your energy – Knowing how to navigate and direct your inner state.
2. Embodying your authentic expression – Owning who you are without apology.
3. Making aligned choices – Taking action from a place of truth, rather than conditioning.
Before you go back to your day, I invite you to take 5-10 minutes to reflect on the following questions. Grab a journal or just sit with them in quiet contemplation:
1. Where in my life do I feel the most resistance, exhaustion, or frustration? (This could be in work, relationships, routines, decision-making, etc.)
2. Am I following a path or expectation that doesn’t actually feel right for me? If so, what feels more true to me?
3. What is one simple shift I can make today to align more with my natural energy? (Example: Giving yourself permission to rest, making a decision based on your gut instinct instead of logic, saying no to something that drains you, etc.)
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